Thank you Notes!

So your big day is over, gifts are unwrapped, you're back from your honeymoon and all the craziness is over. So many people contributed to your beautiful day and you want to thank them. Remember, not all your work is done after the wedding - making sure to thank your guests for all they have done is the very last step! A snail mail thank you note will put a smile on your guests' face. Set aside a few hours to concentrate in a quiet, relaxing space. Don't expect to get them all done in one sitting - pace yourself but don't wait until the last minute! 

Curious as to what is appropriate and what is expected? Here are a few tips:

1.    1-  Yes, this is an extremely busy time in your life, but your wedding guests made your day as wonderful as it was! It is recommended to send a thank you letter to each and every one of your guests within a maximum 3 months after your wedding. And that's a maximum. Much sooner than that - about 2-4 weeks after you're home from your honeymoon- is preferred. 

2.    2-  Handwritten thank yous are a must! Never, ever, ever write a preprinted thank you note. A beautiful penned letter from you and your husband is a priceless, thoughtful touch that will make your guests smile. Make sure you mention the specific gift you received, as to make it personal and thoughtful.

3.     3- Put your current return address on the envelopes. This saves your guests a step in trying to figure out your old or new address. Plus, it may be the first time you and your hubby share a return address :) 

4.    4-  Naturally, different types of gifts will be received at your wedding. For specific gifts, mention the item and when you intend to use it or why you love it. For a monetary gift,  something like this is appropriate: 

Dearest Uncle Phil, John and I want to thank you so much for the check you sent for our wedding.  We have been saving for a down payment on our first home and have added your gift to our special account.   It was so thoughtful of you.   Someday soon, we will be inviting you to our housewarming! Can't wait to see you again. Love, Jenna

5.    5-  Blue or black ink, only! Keep it classy and readable.

Finally, make a list of all the letters you have to write and check them off when they are signed, sealed and delivered. This is a huge accomplishment and great feeling. Plus, you don't want to send two of the same letters!

Happy writing!

xox,

Sierra